​It was a Boxing Day BBQ a few years back.  The sun was shining, all my husband’s family were together enjoying my brothers-in-law freshly built in-ground pool.  There were several other families there too and the older kids were all splashing and playing on the big pool flamingos they got for Christmas.  The adults were eating, drinking and laughing.  Everyone was so happy on a day that could easily have been our 2-year old’s last day on Earth. 
Drowning doesn’t discriminate, and my years as a swim school owner and water safety advocate certainly don’t protect me or my family from drowning.  But I have the SAFER messages imprinted on my brain, and that Boxing day, my eyes were on him like a hawk.
People were coming and going into the pool area.  The dual gates (one at each end of the pool area to allow access up to the back of the block) were not propped open, but they were opening and closing often as kids and adults enjoyed the party.
My blonde-haired boy, was busily exploring the yard, asking intermittently to go swimming, “not yet, look at all of these toys to play with”, and he’d trot off to yell at the kids through the fence.  Then it happened.  I turned to pick up my drink as a group of people went through the pool gate at once and it was held open that fraction longer. 
Children are drawn to water like a moth to a flame.
When I turned back, Mackallay was no longer in the yard, scanning everywhere I spotted his little curls bouncing towards the pool steps.  Someone had innocently let him in.  The kids were playing in the deep again, the adults had gone on through the next gate and there was Mack, unsupervised and two little steps from the water’s edge.  I stood up, he went straight to the pool steps, one step down two steps down yelling for his sister.  I was standing at the pool edge as he paused on the bottom step gigging and wobbling trying to keep his balance just beside the deep sparkling water. 
Without any drama or anyone even knowing what happened, I kicked off my shoes, and scooped him up.  I knew instantly how easily a tragedy could have occurred that day.  If I thought my husband was watching him, if I trusted the barrier to keep him safe, if I thought ‘that won’t happen to me’ and chatted with the other mums.  I hate to even think about what might have happened. 
Children drown at gatherings when one adult thought another adult was supervising.
The words I’d once heard Laurie Lawrence say, often come to mind “an unsupervised child near a backyard pool is like an unsupervised child playing with a loaded gun.”  If nothing else resonates for you, then that is the message I have for you today. 
This summer, as you and your children enjoy Australia’s multitude of water wonderlands, never relax and think “that won’t happen to me”.  Last year in Australia, the Royal Life Saving Drowning Report tells us that 27 families went through the absolute heartbreak of losing their child to drowning.  Their research also tells us that for every child who dies from drowning, 3 more are hospitalised, often left with life-long brain injuries.  Drowning is a real and imminent threat to your children, so this summer, please ramp up your vigilance.
Here are my Top 4 Tips for your summer parties that are on or around water this year:

1. Who Is Supervising?  Appoint a designated child supervisor, possibly more than one if it is a large group. The supervisor should wear a lanyard or special cap and if the supervisor needs to leave the pool area for any reason, the lanyard or hat must be passed onto another adult who will then assume responsibility for supervising the children.  Phones are distracting – put it in your bag.  Don’t just be there, be present with constant eye contact, your child’s life may depend on it.

2.     Restrict Access:  Check the pool fences for any bent or loose panels and check that the pool-gate is self-closing from all positions.  NEVER allow a gate to be propped open during a party – props are often forgotten and result in drownings.  If there is a portable spa, ask if the cover can be left on when it is not in use.  Scan the area for any other hazardous water such as fish ponds, wading pools (empty these after every use), baths or troughs, deep water dog bowls, eskies with melted ice – children have drowned in all these things.
3.     Swimming Skills:  Be super-vigilant of under 5’s and non-swimmers.  We see many children come in to our Swim Centre who have no ability, but no fear or respect for deep water and these are most at risk for drowning.  We also see children who are used to floaties easily forget that they are not wearing them, jump in and sink straight to the bottom.  I cannot stress highly enough that swimming skills save lives – make it a new year’s resolution to enrol in your local swim school.
4.     Emergency planning:  If your child is ever missing at an event, check all water areas first – seconds count.   Refresh your CPR – drowning victims who receive fast CPR have made a full recovery.  Planning what to do in an emergency, even just thinking it through can make a big difference if it ever happens to you.
Stay SAFER this summer and enjoy the water!
Siria Thomas is Managing Director of Northern Stars Swim School in Russell vale and is Convenor of ASSA’s SAFER Swimming team, as well as busy wife and mum to 3.

The pool gate was left wedged open hours after the BBQ was over.  She tiptoed over the wet towels that had fallen in front of the gate.  The water was sparkling and she could see her mermaid Barbie underwater on the bottom step.  "There you are!" she giggled.  It was nearly time for her bath and she wanted mermaid Barbie.  First step, the water is a bit colder now but she's almost there...second step, she can reach from here...third step is slippery...SPLASH....panic, can't reach the edge, cold water, fear, where's mummy, can't breathe...  Scenes like this happen every year in Australia, some with devastating endings, like the ones we often hear in the media.  Sometimes though, the survival skills they have learned in their swimming lessons kick in.  At Northern Stars, I have heard several of these good ending stories from our clients and I know from speaking to others at our national conference recently that swim schools across the country are also hearing success stories from their little swimmers. Children who have participated in lessons and learned how to hold their breath, how to float on their back, how to kick back to the wall and climb out have a better chance of surviving an accidental fall in than those who have not learned these skills.  Swimming lessons should therefore never be considered as just another of the activities kids can choose from.  Ballet won't get them back to the wall, karate won't help them tread water and call for help, and music lessons won't help keep them afloat in a rip current.  The bottom line is that swimming lessons are a big layer in the protection against drowning.  Swimming skills save lives and must not be made negotiable for Aussie kids.  Continuing swimming lessons all year round will ensure your children acquire and maintain skills that could save their life...Swimming Matters.